解密真愛：20歲、30歲、40歲的女人狀態(tài)

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 20s：

1.You can't change or save anyone, so stop trying.

你不能改變或拯救任何人，所以不要再做這些事了。

2.If anyone is going through anyone's email inbox/phone/Facebook account, you shouldn't be together.

如果對方想要看你的郵箱、或電話、或社交網(wǎng)絡賬戶，那么你倆不合適。

3.Be okay with yourself.

對自己好一點。

4.You chose the friends you have for a reason. Take their advice seriously.

你選擇和某人交朋友總有你自己的原因。所以，認真對待朋友給出的意見。

5.Don't feel guilty about breaking up with someone.

不要因為和某人分手了而感到于心不安。

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 30s：

1.Being in a relationship doesn't automatically make you a happier person.

開始了一段感情，不代表你就能活得更加快樂。

2.If he seems unavailable, he is.

如果他看起來遙不可及，那么他就是。

3.Marriage isn't an accomplishment.

婚姻不是一項任務。

4.Sex is not an accurate relationship barometer.

性不是衡量兩人關系的晴雨表。

5.Male friends are important.

異性朋友很重要。

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 40s：

1.Sometimes love is not a feeling...it's a choice.

有時候，愛不是一種感覺，而是一種選擇。

2.Sacrifice. But not too much.

敢于做出犧牲。但不要犧牲得太多。

3.Have role models.

找個榜樣來學習。

4.Be yourself.

做你自己。

5.Be brave, funny, and kind.

勇敢一點、風趣一點、友善一點。