Section B
Are You a Workaholic?
There's a big distinction between working hard and being a workaholic.
Working hard involves being organized, focused, getting a lot of work done, knowing when to stop, and having a life other than work. Workaholics, on the other hand, are often disorganized, always find reasons for working more, feel lost without work to do, hide from problems through work, don't know how or when to relax, bring work home from the office, can't communicate well with fellow workers and family members, and have unbalanced, one-dimensional lives.
Workaholics, like those who are constantly drunk, suffer from a controlling habit, usually defined as compelling behavior despite negative consequences. They are sometimes pushed into their habit by their work beliefs, by workaholic role models, and by a work system that automatically sanctions workaholism. Despite lip service to the contrary ("a balanced employee is a productive employee"), most employers want loyal employees who work longer hours, rewarding them with higher pay and better benefits. In many companies, workers unwilling to burn the midnight oil are at risk. Certainly, they hazard their jobs by working normal hours. Americans tend to become trapped in a working and spending consumption mode, driven by merchants, that leads them to rack up their expectations.
According to some psychology counselors, workaholism can be both good and bad for us. It can fuel a sense of self-worth and accomplishment. And we get paid for it and praised for it, which produces good feelings we may not necessarily be able to attain in other parts of our lives.
Workaholism is a problem that has been evident since the Stone Age — whenever people have sought to escape other parts of their lives through work. Our parents and grandparents worked very hard, but theirs was more of a physical work. Ours has more stress in it, especially in these days of rising competition and shrinking companies. The companies are getting smaller and smaller because of bleak economic conditions and employees fear for their jobs — so they work longer hours. We seem to be more in the fast lane than ever before.
Psychology counselors have noticed three types of workaholics:
·People with high energy that needs discharging.
·Very competitive people who have a strong need to prove themselves and tie their self-worth to their work.
·People who use work to escape from something, such as grief, frustration or guilt. They keep themselves so busy that they have no time or energy to deal with their real problems.
These three types generally have the same traits. They can't stand not being active. They find it hard to go on vacation. They're more comfortable being with fellow workers than with family and friends. They equate self-worth and success with hard work. They'd rather be at work than elsewhere or doing anything else.
Workaholics presumably view their work habits through denial and rationalization. They deny the excessive time they're devoting to work, and they rationalize that their schedule is for the family and essential to being promoted. They also tend to view themselves and their work as indispensable and their working long hours as commitment to the company. Of course there is nothing wrong with their commitment, ambition and durable energy. But what is wrong is that these things often come in at a high price to their health and the welfare of their families.
As workaholics tend to put all their eggs in one basket, their job, they can be helped by spreading these eggs into several baskets. Psychology counselors, for example, often help these people by asking about the hobbies they enjoyed in the past and don't have any more now. That kind of question can often get them started toward regaining more of a balance in their lives.
To be a healthy person physically and psychologically, one should lead a balanced life, summarize some psychology experts. Those little things — reading mystery novels, playing volleyball, spending time with family and friends, playing with the dog, going fishing — may seem relatively insignificant means to a healthy end. They can be at least as rewarding as work.
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NEW WORDS
■workaholic
n. [C] a person who works without stop 閑不下來(lái)的人,工作狂
dimension
n. 1. [C] a factor 方面,特點(diǎn)
2. [C, U] measures for length, width, etc. 尺度(寬,長(zhǎng),厚,高)
dimensional
a. having the stated number of dimensions (構(gòu)成復(fù)合詞的)有……維的,……方面的
constant
a. 1. going on all the time; happening again and again 經(jīng)常的,永恒的,不斷的
2. unchanging; fixed 不變的,固定的
constantly
ad. continuously 經(jīng)常地,不斷地
drunk
a. 1. excited by alcoholic drink (酒)醉的
2. (with) behaving in a strange, often unpleasant way (because of the excitement of sth.) 陶醉(于)
consequence
n. 1. [C] sth. that is a result or effect of sth. else 結(jié)果,結(jié)局,影響
2. [U] importance 重要性
system
n. 1. [C] an ordered set of ideas, methods, or ways of working 制度,體制;一套(工作)方法
2. [C] a group of things or parts working together as a whole 系統(tǒng),體系
sanction
vt. give one's approval for (sth.); allow 批準(zhǔn),認(rèn)可
n. 1. [U] approval for an action, a change, etc. 批準(zhǔn),認(rèn)可
2. [C] a reason that stops people going against laws, rules, etc. 約束力,約束因素
■workaholism
n. [U] state of being workaholic 醉心工作,迷戀工作
employee
n. [C] a person who works for a company in return for money 雇員,被雇傭的人
employer
n. [C] a person or company that employs others 雇主
loyal
a. true to sb./sth. 忠誠(chéng)的,忠貞的
hazard
vt. 1. subject (sth.) to danger; risk 使遭受危險(xiǎn),冒險(xiǎn)
2. take a risk to make or suggest 冒險(xiǎn)做出;大膽提出
n. [C] danger; risk 危險(xiǎn);風(fēng)險(xiǎn)
trap
vt. 1. keep (sb.) in a place from which he wants to move but cannot 使陷于困境,使落入圈套,使受限制
2. catch by a trick 設(shè)陷阱捕捉
n. 1. [C] a device or hole for catching animals or people and preventing their escape 陷阱,捕捉機(jī)
2. [C] a dangerous or unpleasant situation which you have got into and from which it is difficult or impossible to escape 圈套,詭計(jì)
consumption
n. 1. [U] using up of food, energy, resource, etc. 消耗,消費(fèi)
2. [U] the amount used or eaten 消費(fèi)量,消耗量
mode
n. [C] a way or manner in which sth. is done 方法,方式
merchant
n. [C] a businessman; a trader 商人
rack
vt. cause physical or mental pain, or trouble 使(肉體或精神)受痛苦,使受折磨,給……造成麻煩(此詞在文中與up連用,意義為"積累"。)
necessarily
ad. as a sure result 必然地,必定地
evident
a. obvious (to the eye or mind); clear 明顯的,顯然的,清楚的 competition
n. [U, C] a state or an activity in which people compete 競(jìng)爭(zhēng)
lane
n. 1. [C] a strip of road marked out for single line of traffic 車(chē)道
2. [C] a narrow road in the countryside or in a town 小路,小巷
discharge
vt. 1. give or send out 放出,流出
2. give official sanction for sb. to leave 放行,讓……離去
vi. give or send out 排出,流出
n. [U, C] sth. that is discharged 排出物,流出物
competitive
a. 1. (of people) having a strong wish to win (指人)有強(qiáng)烈競(jìng)爭(zhēng)意識(shí)的,好勝心強(qiáng)的
2. of, based on, or decided by competition 競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的,取決于競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的
▲grief
n. 1. [U] deep or violent sad feeling 悲傷,憂傷,悲慟
2. [C] sth. causing such feelings 傷心的事,令人悲傷的事
▲trait
n. [C] a characteristic 品質(zhì),特點(diǎn)
equate
vt. consider as the same; connect in mind 等同,同等對(duì)待
equation
n. 1. [C] a statement that two expressions are equal 方程式,等式
2. [C] the action of making equal or regarding as equal 等同
presumably
ad. it may be supposed that 推測(cè)起來(lái),大概,可能
▲denial
n. 1. [C] a statement that sth. is not true 否認(rèn),否定
2. the act or an example of refusing to give or accept 拒絕給予,拒絕接受
rational
a. 1. not foolish; having common sense; reasonable 合理的,明智的
2. showing clear thought 理智的,理性的
rationalize
vt. provide an explanation for 闡述理由,說(shuō)明理由,自圓其說(shuō)
rationalization
n. [U, C] the action of providing an explanation 闡述理由,說(shuō)明理由
deny
vt. 1. declare untrue; refuse to accept as a fact 否認(rèn),不承認(rèn)
2. refuse to give or allow 拒絕,不給
schedule
n. 1. [C] a program of work to be done 進(jìn)度表,程序表
2. [C] a timetable 時(shí)間表,時(shí)刻表
vt. arrange sth. for a certain time 安排,排定
indispensable
a. too important or too useful to be without 必不可少的,不可或缺的,絕對(duì)必要的
ambition
n. 1. [C, U] strong desire for success, power or money 野心,雄心,抱負(fù)
2. [C] the object of a desire(具體的)抱負(fù)目標(biāo)
durable
a. lasting for a long time 耐用的,持久的
welfare
n. [U] physical and mental health and happiness, esp. of a person(尤指人的)幸福,福利,安康
summarize
vt. make a brief statement of the main points 概述
volleyball
n. [U] 排球,排球運(yùn)動(dòng)
means
n. 1. a method or way (of doing sth.) 方法,途徑
2. (pl.) money that lets you buy things 錢(qián)財(cái),財(cái)力,財(cái)富
PHRASES AND EXPRESSIONS
other than
except 除了
on the other hand
as an opposite point 另一方面
suffer from
experience (sth. unpleasant, such as an illness), esp. over a long period of time or habitually 患有(疾病等);為……所苦
to the contrary
indicating or proving the opposite (表示或證明)相反地
burn the midnight oil
study or work until late at night (學(xué)習(xí)、工作)到深夜,開(kāi)夜車(chē)
at risk
in danger 處于危險(xiǎn)之中
tend to do sth.
be likely to behave in a particular way or have a particular characteristic 傾向于,易于,往往會(huì)
rack up
increase in number or amount step by step 積累,積聚,逐步增加
the Stone Age
石器時(shí)代
fear for
be concerned about sb./sth. 擔(dān)心,憂慮
tie to
cause to be connected with or dependent on 使聯(lián)系在一起;使依附于
escape from
get free from; get away from 逃脫,逃避
at work
at the place where one works; doing sth. esp. work 在工作的地方,在工作
devote to
give (one's energy, time, etc.) to sb./sth. 獻(xiàn)身于,致力于,專心于
come in
appear; happen 出現(xiàn),發(fā)生
put all one's eggs in one basket
risk everything one has on the success of one plan 孤注一擲
你是個(gè)工作狂嗎?
努力工作和醉心于工作之間有很大的區(qū)別。
努力工作是指工作有條有理、精力集中,完成許多工作,知道何時(shí)歇手,知道除了工作還有生活。 而工作狂們常常是缺乏條理, 總在尋找理由想做得更多些,沒(méi)有工作可做時(shí)就感到不知所措,想通過(guò)工作來(lái)躲避問(wèn)題。 他們不知道怎樣或何時(shí)放松一下, 經(jīng)常把辦公室里的活兒帶回家里去做,不善于和同事及家人交流溝通,生活作息不平衡, 單調(diào)乏味。
工作狂, 就像那些老是醉醺醺的人一樣,有一種無(wú)法擺脫的習(xí)慣,這種習(xí)慣通常被定義為不顧消極后果的強(qiáng)迫性行為。 他們有時(shí)是被自己的工作信念、工作狂的行為模式以及一種工作狂自我認(rèn)可的工作方式所逼而養(yǎng)成了這習(xí)慣的。 大多數(shù)雇主盡管口頭上說(shuō)得很漂亮("生活作息保持平衡的雇員是效率高的雇員"),可他們需要的是忠心耿耿的、愿意超時(shí)間工作的雇員,并用高薪和更多的福利來(lái)獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)他們。 在許多公司里,不愿意開(kāi)夜車(chē)的職工的處境岌岌可危。 他們只在正常時(shí)間內(nèi)工作就肯定是在拿自己的飯碗冒險(xiǎn)。 美國(guó)人往往會(huì)陷入一種由商人們所鼓吹的工作-花錢(qián)消費(fèi)的模式之中,這種模式引誘他們抬高了自己的期望值。
根據(jù)某些心理咨詢顧問(wèn)的觀點(diǎn),迷戀工作對(duì)我們來(lái)說(shuō)既是好事,又是壞事。 它可以激發(fā)一種自我價(jià)值和成就感, 而且我們還能因此得到報(bào)酬和表?yè)P(yáng),這會(huì)給我們帶來(lái)我們不一定能從生活的其他方面獲得的良好感覺(jué)。
工作狂自石器時(shí)代起就成了一個(gè)很明顯的問(wèn)題了--每當(dāng)人們?cè)噲D通過(guò)工作來(lái)逃避他們生活中的其他部分時(shí)就會(huì)出現(xiàn)這個(gè)問(wèn)題。 我們的父母和祖輩們工作都很努力,但是他們的勞動(dòng)基本上是體力勞動(dòng)。 而我們的工作則壓力更大,尤其是在當(dāng)今競(jìng)爭(zhēng)日趨激烈、公司規(guī)模日趨縮小的時(shí)代。 由于經(jīng)濟(jì)形勢(shì)黯淡, 公司不斷裁員, 雇員擔(dān)心失去工作, 因此他們工作時(shí)間更長(zhǎng)。 我們好象比過(guò)去任何時(shí)候都更加處于快車(chē)道上。
心理咨詢顧問(wèn)已經(jīng)注意到了三種類型的工作狂:
·精力充沛、需要釋放的人。
·競(jìng)爭(zhēng)心很強(qiáng)、急需證明自己、并把自我價(jià)值和工作聯(lián)系起來(lái)的人。
·想通過(guò)工作來(lái)逃避諸如悲傷、沮喪和內(nèi)疚之類東西的人。 他們讓自己處于極度忙碌的狀態(tài),這樣他們就沒(méi)有時(shí)間或精力去對(duì)付他們的現(xiàn)實(shí)問(wèn)題了。
這三類人通常有同樣的特點(diǎn): 他們?nèi)淌懿涣藨袘猩⑸? 他們發(fā)覺(jué)很難抽出時(shí)間去度假, 與跟家人和朋友們?cè)谝黄鹣啾?,他們覺(jué)得和同事們?cè)谝黄鸶械礁娣栽凇?他們把自我價(jià)值和成功與拼命工作緊密相連。 他們寧可干活,不愿到別的地方去或做其他事情。
據(jù)推測(cè),工作狂通過(guò)否認(rèn)和自圓其說(shuō)來(lái)解釋自己的工作習(xí)慣。 他們否認(rèn)自己在工作上花了太多的時(shí)間,他們自我辯解地說(shuō)他們的工作是為了家庭,同時(shí)對(duì)升職也至關(guān)重要。 他們也往往認(rèn)為他們本人及他們的工作對(duì)公司是不可或缺的, 他們超時(shí)工作是對(duì)公司一種承諾。 當(dāng)然他們的承諾、抱負(fù)和持久的精力均無(wú)可指責(zé), 錯(cuò)的是這些東西是以犧牲他們的健康和他們家庭幸福的高昂代價(jià)才得以實(shí)現(xiàn)的。
因?yàn)楣ぷ骺癜岩磺邢M技耐性谝患?-他們的工作上,因此幫助他們的辦法是把他們的希望分散到幾件事上去。 例如, 心理咨詢顧問(wèn)常常可以通過(guò)詢問(wèn)他們過(guò)去喜歡的、而現(xiàn)在卻丟得一干二凈的業(yè)余愛(ài)好來(lái)幫助他們。 此類問(wèn)題往往能促使他們開(kāi)始更多地恢復(fù)他們生活的平衡。
一些心理學(xué)專家概括說(shuō), 為了做生理和心理上都健康的人,我們必須過(guò)一種平衡的生活。 那些小事情--如閱讀神秘小說(shuō)、打排球、花時(shí)間和家人及朋友一起、跟狗一起玩耍、去釣魚(yú)--對(duì)實(shí)現(xiàn)健康的目的而言, 似乎是一些不太起眼的方法, 可至少可以和工作一樣有益于身心健康。